About

Signle passion wanting for love w4m I realize that sets me apart from ninety percent of the people who post on here! But it describes both me and the kind of guy I'm looking for.

I am a nice, normal, decent, intelligent, well-educated, non-drinking, non-smoking, non-fanatical Christian woman with good morals. I'm 5'9", 140 lbs. (a healthy, HWP thin), white, with straight teeth and decently good looks. I am 20, but most people take me for a lot younger. A couple friends of mine recently confessed that they'd been trying to figure out why I'm still single... and hadn't been able to come up with anything except a shortage of compatible men. I figure that is a pretty high compliment!

I am a software systems engineer, balanced with ballroom, country, and swing dancing and organizing a good-sized meetup group for similar people. I love solving real-world problems. I've had dogs all my life. I've had my current dog for over 15 years. I'm allergic to cats. I listen to mostly country music, though I am compelled sometimes to fix their grammar! :) I am addicted to learning new things. Most of the TV shows I watch are cop or doctor dramas, nerdy sitcoms, or melodramatic spoofs, but I reserve the right to watch a tear-jerking chic drama. I like action movies, where right wins and evil loses. A friend of mine once told me I am the most normal, logical woman he's ever met, but I reserve the right to sometimes do something outside the box -- just for shock value -- like show up with a temporary tattoo! Ha! (OK, yeah, that's about the craziest thing I've ever done. :)

My flaws? I'm not the neatest person in the world. I'm not a slob, but I think people should before coming over so I have time to clean! I'm more apt to be late than early, but I've been improving on that and am now sometimes early and it isn't even an accident! I am also a compulsive problem solver, so don't tell me a problem if you don't want suggestions and/or help fixing it. Misspellings and poor grammar drive me crazy, so please don't torture me! And debt makes me feel something akin to claustrophobia or drowning; if you have debt, please don't ask me out.

A friend once told me I am a paradox -- that I am egalitarian in terms of wanting to be respected as a peer, yet I value chivalry; that I am a sociable introvert; and that, as independent as I am, I like being in a relationship. Personally, I don't think I'm very hard to figure out. I think the best overall solutions are arrived at if all parties are honest, open, and lay all their cards on the table face-up; only then can the optimal choice be made that works best for everyone. Maybe that is the idealist -- the engineer -- in me. But the side of me that appreciates traditional roles says that my world is right-side up if you take the initiative to ask me out, to lead, to ask for my input, and to get the doors for me -- and for the elderly ladies entering the restaurant behind us. :)

Traits I value: being thoughtful and considerate, being helpful, being respectful and respectable, being debt-free, intelligence, leadership, loyalty, a good work ethic, singing on-key, healthy living, mental and emotional balance, being able to disagree without being disagreeable, competence, being handy, good hygiene, smelling clean, a clean sense of humor, and being able to find the beat (if you don't dance yet, you will if you date me for long!). Also, while I have a good variety of friends, I only date guys who are white, U.S. citizens, at least 5'11", have at least a bachelor's degree, and don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. You don't have to be a 10, have all your hair, look like you live at the gym, or be an extrovert, but I hope you're at least decent looking, reasonably fit, be able to carry on an intelligent conversation, and have all your teeth! :) My best friends over the years have been engineers, doctors, and scientists, and often with entrepreneurial interests or management experience -- so that is probably who I'd be the best match with.

So, what about you? What makes you tick? What makes you think we might be a good match? Your pic gets mine.

P.S. Reasons I won't write you back: if you're rude, mean, immoral, smoke, drink, do drugs, or send me just a picture or something generic (you'll have to write me something of substance!).

Her ideal person

Mature horny ladies wanting sex buddy Strapon fuck my fat tight ass