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Soo, Im trying to make up for last year... ... I turned 40 last year and spent it all alone. I would love to change that this time. My birthday is coming up this weekend, and the only wish I have is to have a date with someone that is looking for more than just a fun night out. Yes, I like a nice night of good food, laughing til my stomach hurts, and great conversation. Most of all, what Im seeking is a CONNECTION- life isnt meant to be lived alone. It seems that too many people these days want their cake and eat it too, and are afraid to commit to anything that doesnt afford them some kind of maximum payoff. Relationships, jobs, friendships... all the latest gadgets and stuff has to be BIGGER! BETTER! SHINIER! Im not one of those people. I like life simple. Dont get me wrong, I like some of the things I have, and I have some good quality stuff. I just dont go chasing after temporary bliss- it tends to wear off as fast as it came into your life. I take my time, make smart and well thought out decisions when Im doing important things to be as sure as I can that its for the long term, not just a short term gain. Im not going to sit here and write this to convince you Im "Mr. Perfect"- I have flaws and issues like everyone else. Im not going to lay it all out right here and now, but at 41, if you dont have something, youve been sitting at home doing very little. Life is a risk in itself- risk little, gain little. Im not saying you have to throw ALL caution to the wind, but at least take chances and discover something you never would have if you hadnt stepped outside your own limitations. And THATS why Im here. Taking a risk. So instead of going on and what I am not, Im going to tell you about who I AM... Im 41 (this weekend, but close enough...) 5'7" tall, black hair and brown eyes, mustache/goatee thingy, stocky build with some belly. Never married, no children, d/d free (Ive been tested), I smoke but quitting, occasional drinker, no drug use- not even weed. College educated as an Illustrator at KCAD here in GR, also took classes in London, UK and Florence, Italy. Union tradesman- journeyman millwright. I fix large machinery. Ive lived in the area for 17+ years. Im spiritual, but not religious. I spend my spare time playing guitar and writing music- mainly heavy metal, but Im also known to play a lil blues from time to time and dabble in classical guitar as well. I like watching Sci-fi movies, indie movies and foreign films (and that doesnt just mean kung fu flicks either...lol). I like surfing the net as well, sometimes I will read, tho I tend to do alot of that on here researching personal interests... I love late night drives, fires at night with good friends and great conversations. And theres SOOO much more to uncover. This is just the basics.... As for who I am seeking... Age 34 to around 42 Actively seeking a long term partner and not just out of a relationship. Shorter is better since women like to wear heels, so.. 5'3" or close. Race isnt an issue, hair color doesnt matter but I tend to be attracted more to dark hair. Body type is open, but I have to be attracted. Smaller women are preferable. Children... Im open to it, but it has to be laid out clearly for me to pursue a long term relationship. Intelligent, college educated to at least some level is a MUST. Ambition to constantly keep learning and growing. Compassionate, articulate, passionate, sensual. Non-religious, but some kind of spiritual understanding is good. Must be able to at least tolerate heavy metal music- its a big part of my life, and Im not giving it up. Must have a job and own transportation. WHEW. The hard part is over! FINALLY. Now that Ive gotten all the serious stuff outta the way, lets take a second and relax. Writing these things has to be as tough as reading them is. Sorry I wrote the equivalent of a short story, but I figured it best to get all the important things laid out right off. Like I was saying, Im looking ultimately for something long term. A partner to spend years with, making a great relationship. Im not an average guy, and am more than my appearance might suggest. I dont dress to impress everyone, and Im not the guy who is first to step forward all the time seeking attention from everyone. I just want the attention of ONE. Is that you maybe? Will you take a risk and see if there might be something magical and amazing? If you made it this far reading through all of this, why not? Send me an email. Include a pic, and Ill return the favor. Tell me about yourself ,what makes you tick inside and giddy with joy and what makes you smile. Put your favorite comfort food in the subject of the email, so I can weed out the spam- I dont want to miss your message. And if I dont reply, dont lose heart. I just didnt see enough apparently to feel that there would be a good chance for a connection. Thats a risk I take, losing out on a perfectly good lady. Thanks for reading, and have a GREAT week- the weather is supposed to be PERFECT.

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