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Are You Willing to Find Out if We Actually Like Each Other? I tend to view dating as an interview process. You get to know each other over several weeks before anyone starts making comments about sexual preferences, moving in, spending holidays with relatives, etc. etc. You find out if you actually want to talk to each other and would spend time with each other, first. (Which is not to say that it's all really boring--infatuation has a purpose; if you don't decide to actually date someone within the first three months after you meet them, the odds are overwhelming that you never will.)

I'm a non-negotiably childless, SWF professional interested in books, art, astronomy, psychology, Doctor Who, biker bars, hole-in-the wall restaurants, volunteering and music. I'm looking for someone who shares some of my interests and who can hold up their end of a conversation. DDF, NS, 420 unfriendly, social drinkers only, please. (Musicians, actors, trapeze artists and mad Englishmen more than welcome.)

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